DD is not yet 3. For the Divorced older ladies want dating discreet adult dating last year I have been fighting my ex, defending myself against losing custody of her to him. He has always wanted full filed for divorce right before DD turned 2. Ex filed for full custody out of spite. Up until that point, I was a stay-at-home/work from home mom. She was 2. Ex has always worked full-time. We have had a 50-50 schedule since (the last year). However, dad has missed SEVERAL pick-ups due to his work schedule. Dad refuses to talk to me/- me/text me about ANYTHING. Co-parenting is impossible with him. The evaluator mentions this in the report (saying that I am the parent more encouraging of a relationship between him and our -) Dad only wants full custody to have complete power and control. He is upset when he loses. He throws temper tantrums when he does not get his way (for example, after the report he ed me names, wished my death, and said that he didnt want our anymore. Of course he didnt mean this since the next day he submitted a 17 objection to every single rec in the evaluator's report!) Dad told the psychologist/evaluator that he wants custody to have complete power and control, not because I'm an unfit/abusive mom and that his primary/sole custody of her would be in her best interest. He works full time. He lives with his mom and granny. I work from home and have a flexible schedule. I do not need to work on the days when I have my daughter, so I'm able to take her out to places. Basiy, dad is saying that because we were unhappily married and that because he "doesnt trust me" (well, I dont trust him either which is why I divorced him!) that I should not be given primary even though I provide a better home environment for her (including the fact that her half-brother lives with me full time) and can spend the one-on-one time with her. I feel he is being unreasonable because even though I would have primary, he would still have days of custody/parenting time with her one week, and then days (half the week!), the next -plus I have an open door policy so he could her in my home or while I'm out with her anytime! He never uses this, though. I AM the more available parent! His attorney plans to completely pick apart the evaluator, attempting to make him look like he made the "wrong choice" in picking me as primary.